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Attacking Porn!

braveheartThis is my braveheart moment…You guys know what I am talking about.  The time that I have to step up, jump at the forefront even if it means going through the heat of battle.  We can have freedom and today I am proclaiming it.  I may never fight a giant, or kill a bear with my bare hands, but today I am proclaiming war.

“Heavenly father, may this battle bring you glory! On my own I am nothing, but in you, I have strength, authority, and the ability to overcome.  This is the most bold move that I have ever made, but I know that you are with me.  Father, defeat pornography, and sexual addictions through this. Let our lusts and desires be turned into a passion that will proclaim your freedom to everyone that is in bondage. Lord, I am yours, use me!”

Any of you that have read rachel’s blog know that porn has been a struggle for me.  I have had many people close to me question why I opened up about it.  Plain and simple, I had to.  An alcoholic doesn’t have to open up about their addiction, it shows.  A smoker has an obsessive need to smoke and you cant miss that addiction when its time for smoke breaks at work.  Many addictions are visible.  Not porn…..its the dirty little secret that plagues married men everywhere.  I intend in the next few posts to expose porn. Pray for me as I begin this all out attack on porn.

First up…..How does it start???

Just like the saying that Rome wasn’t built in a day, porn starts small.  For many young guys porn begins by either a dirty magazine or media.  It is so difficult to attack porn because it is everywhere.  You cant turn on the tv or go to a grocery store without having images everywhere.  Just walk down the magazine aisle of your grocery store and you will understand what I mean. 

The most common phrase in advertising is that “Sex sells”. With this mentality in our society it is no wonder that porn, affairs, lust, and everything sexual is our strongest battle.  Often times as a christian man, I feel like I’m walking through the everglades with 50 lbs of chicken around my neck…knowing that alligators are all around waiting to attack.  Even though I may not see much of the attacker, I know that the attack is coming.

gatorsJust imagine your adolescent in the midst of all this danger, it is waiting, lurking, and ready to make that attack, the only thing that we can do is prepare for it. The picture that came to mind is a scene from an old James Bond movie.  He is put in the middle of lake full of alligators.  James Bond (being “the man” that he is) runs across the tops of those alligators and makes it to safety.   2 Timothy 2:22 says that we are to flee youthful lusts.  After being entangled by pornography it is no surprise to me that the best defense is to turn and run.  The key, is to know what direction to run! If you just run away from lust, you will still be entangled.  The only way to make it safely to dry ground is to run above the trap of sexual sin and run TO JESUS


6 Responses to “Attacking Porn!”

  1. Way to be bold. If you have naysayers for doing this, press on anyway. I have found that many, NOT ALL, but many who think you shouldn’t open up about porn just don’t want to deal with reality.

    It’s out there. And deadly as ever.

    Press on!

  2. So freakin’ proud of you baby!! I adore you and am so proud to be your girl.

  3. I am with you on this war, I am sure there are many others, we have to team up and prepare an open battle against it.

    I am led by The Lord to write a book to set free many of us from this bondage. Please pray for me as I know I am holding a war against the prince of darkness and his army.

    Lastly, I am proud to found your blog. There should be many more like this.

    May the Lord strengthen you and empowers you all the days of your life. When the temptation grows strong, go fast, it always defeat the attack that is being targeted towards you. Fasting is the ultimate weapon against this beast.

    God bless you and your family.

  4. I agree. I am not a married man but in fact I am a 14 year old boy who is addicted to porn. I admit it! To war against porn.
    But what is the best weapon against porn? How do I fight it?

  5. H.A. There are several ways to attack porn, However the only ones that will be effective come through Jesus Christ. We have to trust and depend on him in order for us to overcome an addiction to pornography. We have to gain wisdom, and replace the porn with healthy things.

    Porn causes decay, moraly, spiritually, and even physically. You have to open up to someone that you can trust, an accountability partner. Doing this helps you to know that you are not alone. The biggest key is to know that you cannot overcome porn addiction on your own. But you can overcome anything through the power of God. Check out xxxchurch.com, there are some great resources there. If you would like to talk to me I will gladly make myself available to you.


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